#LESSON 22:Sometimes ask Why NOT? instead of WHY?

I know sometimes the ”why?”s fills you with doubt instead of hopes.

It has happened to me,I have asked why and had a mental breakdown for weeks.

So someone who knows how to calculate taught me that you can’t exactly calculate the amount of risk you might have to take.The fact that everything is based on a ”possibility” is the proof that you should take the damn risk.

What is the worse that can happen?

If people can get over heartbreaks, heavy debts and hollow souls this could not do you that much harm now could it?

Go ahead take that step you were doubtful about.

You will not regret after learning a lesson and seeing all that you could do…I know it would be a bit awkward if it does not work….but what if it does?

(P.S- I wanted to continue the 21 lessons I learnt from strangers and friends because there are more than 21 lessons these humans have taught me πŸ™‚ I hope you don’t mind)

3 Comments Add yours

  1. Sanjay Bajaj says:

    Nice one rae….. We should not focus on why (problem) like “I can not afford it” rather we should focus on How (solution) “How can I afford it?” and as George Bernard Shaw said “Some people see things as they are and say ‘why’ but I dream of things they are not and say “why not”!

    1. thanks sanjay πŸ˜€

  2. Sanjay Bajaj says:


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